I think Caroline wanted to be there for Stefan. We didnt hear her earlier messages- the fact is Stefan ran away and didnt let her be there for him. Like yeah I get it, he needs his own space, which I agree with but you cant say no one was there for him cause CAROLINE has been, since forever. & he was the only one of the group to leave and do his suffering w/o caring about anyone else. Caroline just wanted to hold the group together. I mean he could be drinking in a corner, and that would b betta

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Caroline has been there for him. I wasn’t trying to say she wasn’t. I just believe that he needed to do what he needed to do, and Caroline shaming him for it for his way of coping wasn’t okay with me. He did listen to that one message and he ended up breaking his phone. He does care about them, at least about Caroline. Hell, he was the only one who looked up ways to bring back Bonnie as well, aside from Caroline. You have to understand that he looked at every lead he found and came up empty handed each time. It’d be understandable for him to give up. Meanwhile, no one else has been looking at ways to bring them back except for Enzo, and Caroline’s busy trying to make her hometown a danger-zone again (but I won’t get into that right now).

And I didn’t look at it with Caroline wanting to be there for Stefan. I looked at it like Caroline wanted Stefan to be there for her. Not once did she even ask how he was doing. The entire time she was there, she was making snide remarks about what he was “supposed” to be doing, even going so far as to bring up how he used to date Elena with his girlfriend (R.I.P. Ivy) sitting right next o her.

I understand how what he did could be considered a dick move from Caroline’s perspective. I’ve looked at it from both sides and come to the conclusion that even if Caroline was upset, she didn’t have the right to go into his home and make him feel guilty for moving on with his life—something he has actually been trying to do since season 4, but he ended up always being pulled back in. God forbid that Stefan Salvatore actually be happy for once.

And really, what does he owe any of them? Yes, he’s besties with Caroline, but anything she’s done for him, he’s more than repaid her. He doesn’t owe Elena or Enzo shit. Tyler was never his problem to begin with. Jeremy and Matt are safely away in Mystic Falls where no vampire can get them. And the two people he actually does give a shit about still are stuck on the Other Side, and it looks like the only people who has the power to do anything about it is Bonnie and Damon themselves.

All Mystic Falls has done is bring this boy misery. Being around them is a constant reminder of how much pain he’s been through. Anyone with a sane mind would want to get the hell away from that, anyone would go numb towards these people eventually, so why is Stefan being hated on for it?