i really hate the effect our hypersexualized society has on young girls. do you know how fucked up it is for an 11 year old girl to be scared of heterosexual sex because she thinks its inevitable? when i was 11, guys told me it would be painful, that penetration was mandatory, and that guys will want blowjobs. when i said i didnt want to do that ever, everyone made fun of me, and my parents told me i’d want that when i got older. guys always look forward to sex but little girls not even in their teens yet are anticipating it in fear because they think it’s mandatory for them to experience pain and humiliation to please men honestly what the fuuuck
Guys almost got seriously offended when I said I wouldnt wanna give a blowjob. And by guys, I dont mean the guys I slept with, I mean guys I just had conversations with about sex. It could make them really mad, if I said there was something I didnt want to do, and they would spent so much time trying to convince me that I was wrong for not wanting to do these things, and wouldnt leave me alone about it.
Males take it personal when a females choose not to be sexually available to them. It is the biggest rebellion against patriarchy.
This is why hypersexualisation will never benefit women in patriarchy.